Stop living for everyone else. Start creating a life that feels like you.
Decenter the programming that keeps you from choosing yourself. Design a life that feels honest, grounded, and fully your own.
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Building trust with yourself and designing a life that feels authentic to you.
FollowIf you feel like you’re living someone else’s life, you’re in the right place.
You might be here because:
You’ve built a life around everyone else’s needs and you’re quietly resentful and exhausted.
You feel stuck in toxic or draining dynamics and the idea of putting yourself first feels foreign.
You’re a chronic fixer / overthinker who’s amazing for everyone else, but never really lands for yourself.
You’re ready to change, but you have no idea where to start without blowing everything up.
What I do is help you:
End self‑abandonment
Rebuild trust in yourself
Design a life that actually
fits who you are
And protect it with
boundaries and systems
All in a way that’s honest, grounded, and actually doable.
The Self Love Club Newsletter
Every month I send the best of what I've found to help empaths and those who struggle to choose themselves move from people-pleasing to embracing their authentic selves.
Expect to get:
- BTS insights and tea on the topics we're talking about online
- Top tier lessons from my own life that you can apply to your own
- Practical prompts and perspective shifts that help you stay true to you
- Reminders that being you doesn't mean you're crazy or broken
- Early access to classes, lives, and new programs
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Want 1:1 help?
If you’re at a point where you know you can’t keep doing this alone, I offer a small number of 1:1 coaching programs.
Together we can:
- Get clear on what needs to change
- Build a plan that fits your actual life
- Support you in making the hard choices and holding the new boundaries
View here or book a free discovery call for us to talk your needs through. I’ll ask you a few questions to see if we’re a good fit. If not, I’ll point you to other ways to get support.
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hi, i’m Carlos.
I’m a transformation coach who helps you stop living for everyone else and start being true to yourself.
After burning out and realizing how far I’d drifted from who I really was, I rebuilt my entire life from the inside out, using the same strategy and tools I used for brands, but on myself.
Now I help empaths and people who struggle to choose themselves:
- Understand their patterns without shame
- Rebuild self‑trust
- Design lives that feel honest, grounded, and fully their own
I believe we all feel so disconnected is because we’re not connected to ourselves. Everything I build here is meant to help reset that.
